A TRANSFORMATIONAL EDUCATION + SUPPORT COMMUNITY FOR CHRISTIAN WOMEN, DIVORCED AND READY TO MOVE FORWARD.
You made it through one of life's most devastating circumstances (especially as a Christian woman):
Getting to the other side took everything you had + everything you didn't know you had. You experienced too many losses, and now you're left emotionally exhausted while facing an unknown future.
Start over? Yes, of course, but where in the world do you begin?
You’re not even sure who you are anymore…
Do you believe you're a failure?
Like you might've wasted your life?
Who are you to hope for anything better, anyway?
How can life have any meaning when you’ve left your original purpose behind you?
...and how can you make good decisions now—when you’re secretly afraid there’s something inherently wrong with you?
I get it.
From where you’re standing right now, it may seem too good to be true…
...but what if you had the self-confidence to do absolutely anything you wanted to do?
(And instead of letting your insecurities limit your future, you can become the agent of your own change?)
What if you could learn how to grow + build healthy relationships and weed out unhealthy ones?
(Because you have a loving, trusting relationship with yourself—and always have your own back?)
What if you could overcome the label “divorced woman” so you no longer took on shame or guilt?
What if you could take back your faith in God—now more real and vibrant than ever?
What if you could create an authentic life that aligns with your core values and who you want to be for the rest of your life?
Now is the best time to take back your life.
HERE'S WHAT MEMBERS ARE SAYING . . .
"Flying Higher has taken me on a journey of deeper healing and personal growth. I am now becoming the most authentic version of myself. I haven't felt this level of freedom, probably ever! Even just knowing this level is possible offers so much hope!"
- Sharon R.
"Flying Higher has unlocked the next level of healing beyond divorce. It has kicked my butt and caused me to focus on areas which only I have control. I am learning how to develop the best version of me! It is hard work! But necessary for change in my thinking and approaching situations with my ex and other unhealthy relationships."
- Tamika C.
HERE'S WHAT YOU'LL GET AS YOU START FLYING HIGHER
Core program of 25 courses (118 lessons) so you can grow the skills+motivation you need to accomplish any goal. You'll be able to learn and practice everything in bite-sized, doable steps.
Live optional book studies to dig deeper into self-development and forward movement. Meet the authors in live Q&A's. We provide the reading schedule and the book summaries. Read along with us or just get the highlights from our discussions.
Live coaching sessions 2x per month so you can get personal help with specific areas that are holding you back. You can observe others in their process (which gives you clarity about your own issues!) or get coaching for yourself.
Private online community forum of Christian divorced women where you can build lifelong friendships with strong women, overcoming the same challenges you're working on.
Access to trained professional coaches throughout the month in this same private forum.
Bi-monthly live gatherings via Zoom where we break into small groups and dig deeper on the subjects we’re learning about.
Private podcast so you can listen to all the replays of your class lessons and coaching sessions on your time, at your convenience, using your favorite podcast app.
Hi, I'm Natalie Hoffman.
I'm a trusted author, educator, podcaster, professional certified coach, and most importantly, Christian divorcee.
As a survivor of lifelong emotional and spiritual abuse who has finally found my wings, I'm passionate about helping women of faith rebuild their lives after divorce.
While you may be a survivor, you don't want to “just survive” the rest of your amazing life on planet earth. You want to make a difference. I have a dream where women of faith are free to do—and be—all God created them to do and be.
Where they safely and joyfully fulfill the destiny their Creator has for them. Where some folks see broken dreams and piles of rubble, I see secret gardens just waiting for a green thumb.
Let's work together to cultivate YOUR life and create a future that is intentional and rich with meaning.APPLY TODAY!
"I love this strong community of women. The classes accurately match where I am in this process of healing. I will use these resources long into the future for "ready reference" when I need to brush up on my skills. Flying Higher is meeting a need for divorced Christian women that I have not found anywhere else."
- Jennifer P.
WONDER IF YOU'RE READY FOR FLYING HIGHER?
CONSIDER WHAT YOU'VE ALREADY ACCOMPLISHED...
- You've broken free from a toxic relationship that was destroying you from the inside out.
- You've weathered the storms of rejection from family and friends—and possibly even your faith community.
- You've made some difficult and painful decisions that you never thought you’d make.
- You've endured loss after loss—and still maintained your sanity.
A few women taking charge of their own story...
"Everyone could use this program in their lives. We do have control of our thoughts, feelings, and ultimately our actions. It has been life changing to realize how much I can control in a very unpredictable world. I’m now teaching my teenagers what you’re teaching me."
- Pam W.
“This is the key to healing! I understand myself and my relationships and why I do what I do much better. I am able to accept myself and have compassion for the person I was and am becoming. I am learning and growing and letting go. My feelings from circumstances that would paralyze me for days no longer control me.”
- Jessie G.
“Flying Higher encourages me to really think and address my destructive thoughts and know that I can change my thought patterns to make a better life for myself. I truly have hope for once in a very long time.”
- Lynn H.
ALL THE DETAILS!
As soon as you join Flying Higher, you’ll get instant access to our powerful core training program + live coaching designed to meet members exactly where you’re at. Here is just a sampling:
You, Your Greatest Hero
Discover the real you—from the inside out—and unlock the path to your future best life.
Breaking Your Brain’s Addiction to Abuse
Stop being held hostage by outside circumstances, and start taking healthy steps toward detoxing your mind.
Get Anything Done
You know you should set goals, but how do you actually accomplish your intentions? Break the cycle of procrastination and shame, and get 'er done.
Deconstruction: Your Journey in Faith
On your own, this process can be rocky...but in this safe circle of intentional women, we support each other as we playfully explore possibilities, so you can reclaim the faith you always wished you had.
Past, Present, and Future Focus
You may have been through a rough past, but in this course, you’ll learn how to reframe past experiences in a way that helps you see bright new possibilities for your present and your future.
Dare to Date
Discover the essentials of online dating apps: how to approach possible relationships in a healthy way, why self discovery is just as important as finding the “right” person, and how to face new prospects with a sense of playfulness and adventure.
Get your personal finances in order by setting goals, creating a budget, and learning about credit, taxes, and investing.
Living Into Emotional Adulthood
Do you ever feel like you’re a little girl in an adult woman’s body? Learn how to lean into self-leadership and regulate your mind and emotions in empowering ways that will help you feel like the adult woman you are.
How To Organize Your Life
Organization is so much more than just decluttering and moving things around. Discover how to live be design and not default. And it all starts in your brain.
Leadership In Parenting
Parenting wasn’t what you thought it would be when you first held that newborn. If parenting has overwhelmed you and left you feeling like a failure, this course is for you.
The Fear Cure
Let’s go to all the things that terrify us and hold us back. And then let’s learn about what we can do about it so we can truly be set free.
Honoring The Body
Learn how to shift the priority from performance to honoring the gift of your human body through intuitive fitness—a gentle approach perfect for survivors of abuse and stress.
ARE YOU READY TO
...feel the support of Christian women walking beside you as you transform from the inside out—together
Encounter fresh new ideas + processes that hone your decision making skills, so you can step bravely into the life you want
Look back, 12 months from now, and celebrate the incredible personal growth and new-found strength you have as a result of Flying Higher?APPLY TODAY!
SOME A'S FOR YOUR Q'S
How does membership work?
How can I work this into my schedule? I'm already so busy!
I'm not sure I can change. I feel so hopeless!
How much does Flying Higher cost, and what if I can’t afford the tuition right now?
Six months from now, you will either be the same person with the same mindset, habits, and scenarios holding you back from living the life you desire…
...or you will be experiencing FREEDOM as you transform your life from the inside out—with the full support of coaching, education, and community.
The next step you take is up to you.
MORE CLIENT REVIEWS
Thank you for these past 3 months of instruction and insight. I know without a doubt that God led me to you and Flying Higher. For the first time, I am understanding what I was married to and why the confusion and pain were so great all those years of trying to have a happy marriage. I feel set free from the pain, guilt and shame that weren’t mine to carry!
Flying Higher takes one on a journey of deeper healing and personal growth. It is hard personal work but it has been transformational towards me becoming the most authentic version of myself. I haven't felt this level of freedom in probably ever! Even just knowing this level is possible offers so much hope!
This is the way to move forward after an abusive relationship! This is gaining power over your feelings and realizing the circumstances are not what's causing the problem, it's your thoughts. You have to put the time in and do the work. The results are amazing. You deserve this program. I'm so glad I decided to fly higher.
I have learned and healed more in the last month with Flying Higher than in the last 2 years since my divorce. Knowledge is power and I am finally starting to understand the 36 years of control and confusion of my marriage was NOT me. I am no longer dancing with crazy, and oh I feel so beautifully free!
DO IT!!! This program is a life-changer and life-saver! You will learn to change your brain's programming to become the whole person that you want to be. You will move forward into real freedom from the abusive past. No more being stuck in a whirlpool of emotions and bondage to old thinking! You can take charge of your life and learn to love yourself and others. This program is challenging and if you do the hard work, you will become the "real" you. You will be truly free.
Natalie's coaching is world-class.
I would encourage all women who have been or are in the process of a divorce and/or have been a part of an unhealthy marriage or church to go through Flying Higher. Whether we need to change patterns of thinking in our life, need to learn to be our own or another's advocate, or need to look ahead to the future and not to the past anymore or any number of other things, Flying Higher offers the structure and format to do these things in an emotionally safe but growing environment. It may be that we just need to learn to breathe and look around us and enjoy the beauty of our one God-given life........to actually experience the lifting of the burdens we weren't meant to carry is life changing. It brings a quality of life that I don't think I ever truly experienced until now.
Your program has been so helpful in my healing journey. What I like most is the feeling that I am in a group of healthy badass women who are wanting to grow and learn. (I love being considered badass!) That alone is motivating to keep on working through this material. A few things standout related to my journey:
• Coaching - every session is helpful, but my session helped me to know that my superpower is saying no and that it is OK to set boundaries at work. That they need me and I need to figure out how to balance my life. I am getting better at this and have less anxiety on the weekend for not working.
• Organization - I have cleaned out several drawers and a closet and I feel so refreshed for doing so. This motivates me to set aside time regularly to clean or sort, even if just 15 min a day.
• Gain vs Gap - this recent study has been liberating and bringing so much more joy and satisfaction over all that I have accomplished even if everything on my list doesn’t get done.
• Desire to dream again - it has been a very long time since I dreamed because it seemed futile. My word this year is hope related to dreaming and being purposeful to dream and make those dreams a reality.
• Dealing with difficult people at the holidays - helped me see my mom in a different light. Christmas was entirely different for me because I didn’t over function and try to control my mom so that we could have a less chaotic environment. Instead, I let her be her and I chose to be who I wanted to be. It was very freeing and my mom seemed to let go just a bit. I plan to use my notes as a refresher when I go on vacation with her later this year.